- Be me
I feel like I have lost my sense of self a little bit over the last few years. I tend to avoid conflicts and do my best to please everyone around me. But I have learned that it is more important to be true to myself, my heart and my personality.
- Be a role model
Children tend to imitate their parents. My kids are my biggest reason for wanting to become a better person. If I am happy, positive, enthusiastic, loving, etc - it is more likely that they will become happy, positive, enthusiastic and loving when they grow up.
- Step out of your comfort zone
Remember that we are capable of infinite love, and that true love is unconditional.
- Find the silver lining
Be more of a Pollyanna:) Remember "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional."
- Have fun
Don't take life too seriously. Don't take yourself too seriously.
- Don't postpone or hesitate
Unpleasant, tedious or scary tasks are not going to be any easier to tackle tomorrow or any other day.
- Think in solutions
- Enjoy your failures - learn from your mistakes
And here are two great posts on being happy and positive!